5 Prinsip Parenting Membentuk Karakter Posistif Pada Anak

  • By Michael Scofield
  • 11, Agustus 2026
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Prinsip parenting harus dimiliki oleh orang tua. Meski penerapanya tidak mudah, prinsip parenting yang baik akan berpengaruh terhadap perilaku dan mentak anak.

5 Prinsip Parenting Membentuk Karakter Posistif Pada Anak

 Prinsip parenting harus dimiliki oleh orang tua. Meski penerapanya tidak mudah, prinsip parenting yang baik akan  berpengaruh terhadap perilaku dan mentak anak.

Pola  Asu atau prinsip parenting yang baik dapat menumbuhkan rasa kepedulian, kejujuran, kemandirian, dan keceriaan pada diri anak. Cara pengasuhan yang baik juga dapat mendukung kecerdasan dan melindungi anak dari rasa cemas, depresi, pergaulan bebas, serta penyalagunaan minuman berakohol  dan narkoba.

Prinsip utama pola asuh yang baik adalah membesarkan dan mendidik anak dengan penuh kasih sayang, sekaligus mendukung, membimbing, dan menjadi teman yang menyenangkan.

Pola Asuh untuk Membentuk Karakter Positif  pada  Anak

Berikut ini 5 prinsip Pola Asuh atau Parenting yang bisa Bunda dan Ayah terapkan untuk membantu membentuk karakter positif pada anak.

1. Jadi Panutan yang baik bagi anak

Anak merupakan peniru yang jitu. Oleh karena itu, untuk membentuk karakter positif anak, Ayah dan Bunda perlu melakukan kebaikan agar bisa dijadikan panutan. Contoh hal-hal yang baik yang perlu diperlihatkan kepada Sikecil adalah terbiasa berkata jujur, berperilaku santun terhadap orang lain, serta membantu orang lain tanpa mengharap imbalan.

Selain itu, tunjukkan juga kepadannya bagaimana cara hidup sehat, misalnya mengonsumsi sayuran dan buah-buahan setiap hari, menyikat Gigi setelah makan dan menjelang tidur, serta membuang sampa pada tempatnya. Dengan demikian, anak juga terbiasa juga untuk menerapkan pola hidup sehat.

2. Jangan terlalu memanjakan anak

Agar Si Kecil tidak menjadi anak yang manja, Bunda dan Ayah harus memilah mana hal perlu dituruti dan tidak. Sebagai Contoh, jangan turuti kemauan Si Kecil ketika ia menangis karena ingin menonton televisi  di wakti tidur malam, meminta dibelikan sesuatu yang tidak dibutuhkan, atau merengek untuk bermain gadget.

Meski mendisiplinkan anak dapat membentuk karakter yang baik pada dirinya, jangan memarahi atau memukul ketika Si Kecil berbuat kesalahan, Ya. Tegurla dengan lembut tetapi tegas dan berikan pemahaman ketika ia melakukan kesalahan. Jangan lupa berikan pujian saat ia berhasil melakukan sesuatu yang baik.

3. Luangkan Waktu untuk anak setiap hari

Anak mungkin saja bersikap buruk karena ingin diperhatikan oleh orang tuanya. Jadi, sesibuk apapun Ayah dan Bunda coba sempatkan waktu untuk terlibat dalam Kehidupan Si Kecil. Namun bukan berarti kalian berdua harus terus menerus berada disampingnya.

Family Time bisa dilakukan dengan sarapan bersama, mengantarkanya ke sekolah, datang susunan acara yang dilakukan Si Kecil, atau  berbincang sebelum tidur mengenai kegiatan yang dilakukannya seharian.

4. Tumbuhkan sifat kemandirian pada anak

Melatih anak agar mandari  dapat ditanamkan dengan cara memberikan kepercayaan, kesempatan dan apresiasi. Misalnya, mengajarkan Si Kecil merapihkan mainan  dan tempat tidurnya sendiri atau membiasakan ia menyiapkan bekal sekolahnya sendiri.

Saat Si Kecil memasuki masa remaja, Bunda dan Ayah bisa mendukung dan membantunya menyelesaikan masalah pribadinya dengan cara berdiskusi dan mengarahkan pikiranya untuk mengambil sikap terbaik.

Pahamila bahwa prinsip parentig tidak mudah untuk dilakukan anak. Jadi, tunjukkan apresiasi dan kasi sayang Bunda dan Ayah pada setiap usaha dan Keberhasilannya. Saat mereka gagal atau berbuat salah, jangan mengejeknya apalagi membandingkan  dirinya dengan anak - anak lain.

5. Tentukan Peraturan di Rumah dengan Menyertai Alasannya

Bunda dan Ayah perlu untuk menerapkan prinsip parenting dengan aturan yang bisa membantu anak belajar mengendalikan diri serta membedakan perilaku  baik dan buruk. Ketika membuat peraturan, Bunda dan Ayah juga perlu menjelaskan alasan mengapa peraturan itu dibuat.

Peraturan yang bisa disiapkan misalnya, membatasi penggunaan gadget karena penggunaan gadget terlalu lama bisa merusak mata atau menggunakan listrik seperlulnya untuk menghemat biaya.

Menerapkan prinsip Parenting diatas memang tidak semudah yang dibayangkan. Namun, Bunda dan Ayah harus berusaha untuk tetap konsisten dalam menerapkan hal-hal diatas, meskipun ada keterbatasan waktu ataupun tenaga.

Bunda dan Ayah juga harus paham bahwa lingkungan dan usia bisa memengaruhi perilaku anak. Jadi terapkan pola asuh  sesuai usia dan perkembangan buah hati kalian.

Jika Bunda dan Ayah mengalami kesulitan dalam menerapkan prinsip parenting ini, cobalah berdiskusi dan meminta saran dari orang tua lain, orang tua kalian, atau guru di sekolah  Si Kecil.

Bilah perlu, Konsultasikan dengan psikolog  untuk mendapatkan saran terbaik sesuai kondisi kalian dan Si Kecil . Konsultasikan bisa dilakukan melalui chat tanpa perlu ke rumah.. 

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